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Cheating VS Open Relationship

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For some of us, having an open relationship is like having a piece of cake and eating it. Sorry to use too many metaphors, but it's true: some of us think it's unethical to go to bed with someone else in a close relationship. Sure, it's a bit of a shame to have open relationships in some countries, but will it be a working way to maintaining a happy, loving close relationship? A fresh approach. Many people who have been in a close relationship for years or who have been married know that the feeling of passion fades and evolves into a deeper friendship. It's certainly predictable, you're used to each other's bodies, habits and newness less. To meet a new lover, the desire to remove the fresh body is so strong that makes you cheat. In Europe, the results are very interesting. In Finland, for example, 36 percent of people admit to cheating, and more than 1 million people in the UK admit to having had an affair with a long-term partner. In Denmark, particularl...

5 advice to open relationship and polyamory

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People who attempt to have an  open relationship  are considered clearly, what road they will walk is a new road of exploration, culture without too much discipline, stereotypes about open relationship and throuple were small, they will break the ancient customs, to some extent and create new things, it totally depends on the two sides agreed rules. Then, on the other hand, the hidden danger of monogamy may be, we have been taught too much appearance of marriage, so we are very easy to fell into the content of the discipline, we will try to do formal, but not necessarily to look forward to on both sides. But if we are conscious, perhaps we can also adjust our monogamous relationship, which I think can be the revelation: Look at gender stereotypes: those “men would think, women would think” “men are so, women are” old gender view to go outside the cloud nine, gender stereotypes set to a partner’s biggest problem is that you in the imagination of people fall in love with yo...

Are you in open relationships?

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Open relationship of the two sides agreed not to single system to limit the close relationship, the two sides agreed to maintain the existing close relationship, at the same time allow the two sides and others develop long-term or short-term romantic/sex. And someone would like to called it throuple, threesome dating and polyamory relationship , that's all right. While talking about an open relationship, people first reaction is always open, in fact, explore to which step in the relationship, contains what content, completely is determined according to the participants intend to negotiate. So, there are some open relationship is open to relate to people and some open relationship is open enough to allow flirting, kissing and some open relationship is open to sexual contact. Openness to sex is often the most cautious step in open relationships. Really understand the open relationship, and intend to practice an open relationship, will realize that if you want to protect the existi...

Open relationships from the heart

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Monogamy is a prayer for many people, but some people think it is only a belief and a choice. There are hundreds of people in the world, and there are always different ways of taking things. One of that way is  Open relationship . And we might called it polyamory relationship. For those who have an open relationship, they are loyal to each relationship, but there is more than one object. Love can be divided among many people. Whether it’s reading The Ethical Slut or listening to The sharing of multiple/open relationships, The core of The relationship is not sexual, it’s about building a more complete and healthy self. The open and changeful term makes the person in it have to confront the traumatic and dark side of their lives. Escape to the periphery of the monogamous system, is a monogamous system can be seen the mainstream discourse lies – “stability” is provided by a one-to-one relationship can’t protect anyone from the feeling of jealousy or insecurity. Jealousy, or in...

open relationships and throuple dating

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When I went to school in Colorado, I met a boy who received me. We talked about sexual orientation and intimacy a lot. And he gave me some surprised about his opinion. He says he’s a  bisexual , he once has a boyfriend, and he once has a girlfriend too, what’s more he’s not just a one-on-one relationship, yeah, he said he always has a open relationship, and someone called it polyamory. He has had a relationship with more than two partners and doesn’t like the current monogamous marriage, and if he can, he wants to have a throuple relationship in the future. It means he wants a polyamory relationship in his life. Some of our conversations are as follow: Me: How do you date with your sex partners? Owen: The first, two of our partners can’t be the people in our two living circles, that is, not to be connected to our daily lives. Secondly, we can’t hold hands and kiss with the sex partners, because holding hands and kissing only belong to each other. It is very importa...

throuple dating is coming

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I once broke up with my partner because of open relationships . When I first entered the same sex relationship, everything was new to me, and at this point, I found that a lot of normal heterosexual "systems" were not adapting to new same-sex close relationships. For example, I used to cut out my boyfriend's overhang with the same sex, and everyone knows the boundary between the opposite sex, but it's not the same thing. I feel jealous because my partner sleeps with her best friend, and I don't seem to be able to do anything about her polyamory relationship with the girls she once liked. That's when I felt the void of my emotional needs. The relationship between man and man is fluid, and there is no boundary between absolute friendship and love. Every pair of relationships is unique. Why should we be imprisoned? If we can meet our various needs in a variety of ways, why not try to build a variety of intimate relationships? Then I met a new suitor. I wanted ...

10 tips about throuple dating

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What ’ s the feeling of throuple dating and open relationships? 1.  "People always think we're going to break up, but it's been seven years since we've had this open relationship." 2.  "I've heard him say he's not alone, so I've been curious about his situation. We've been texting each other for days and I finally asked him who's living with you? He told me in a very honest way that he had a wife and they were all supporters of the open relationship, and his wife had a boyfriend. He was very explicit about it, and he didn't hide it." 3.  "For this thing we talked a lot, I don't remember when was the first time it started, but when we talked about our future, we all think that should not be bundled and restrict each other. We do often talk about what should be the nature of a relationship, also talk about their opinions on some new form of relationship, I think it's probably we started thinking of trying to...

4 reasons of why open relationship exists

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Some years ago, Facebook had a choice of relationship status:  Open Relationship , which means both men and women were free to go on a date. The film " Friends with Benets " describes a pair of Friends who are office workers, a man and a woman in a relationship is lover down to "emotional disorder", since they both felt love affairs and romance, it's very troublesome, rather than have an "open relationship", and they decided to" just for sex ". Open relationships refers to the willingness of both partners to accept a "non-singular relationship" that allows them to tolerate or accept a relationship with someone else and to have a close relationship with someone else. In the fast-changing world of life, and the arrival of the Internet generation, people interact with people because of the possibility of exponential type, and the new generation of love interest has an interesting transformation. But what is the relationship between ...

Do people really like polyamory?

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These days, young people have long been labelled " open relationship " by the media: they have the urge to go to bed and/or date. Some people are asiatics, they like to put this kind of behavior is called "regression of human nature," back to the western concept of marriage before, haven't we all believe in true love and trick the diamond. Others see it as an excuse to cheat, a side effect of a generation that is overly enthusiastic about going to bed on their first date. Although there is no reliable data (as there are no any data) proves that the increase of the throuple dating and abomination millennials correlation between birth, but it's hard to say Tinder and Grindr popular reflection of the App is not a sign of The Times. However, it is not yet clear how to deal with the jealousy that accompanies a passionate desire to pursue a plural partner, or how to balance that desire in a real relationship. We found Jillian Deri, a professor and sexologist a...

The polyamory of movies

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We may ask, in interpersonal relations, other forms of love, such as friendship and affection, can be divided among several different objects, why is the love between lovers not? It means  throuple  or polyamory dating. 2010 Spanish film of angels, and in the same year the German film “triangle” both films of this thesis provides the most ancient times feeling, although is very superficial remorse. The  open relationship  between Sartre and beauvoir’s lifelong marriage and companionship has become a good thing. But that was the 1960s, the age of revolution. Despite the chaos of the world, people believe that the world is going to be better. We should be brave enough to break all barriers and dare to challenge everything. Against the background of red sky, the foreground is young body. Sex is the means of struggle. Sex is the revolution itself. Bertolucci thought the 1960s were the best time of his life. In the turning of his eyes, may ‘1968 storm just a rom...

Is open relationship equal to possessive minimization?

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The open relationship , which was first introduced in the United States in 1970, emphasizes that both parties are unreservedly open their information and ideas to each other. From a sexual point of view, they do not agree on the exclusivity of monogamy and romantic relationships or the absolute loyalty of their partner. Both men can have sex with other people on the premise of maintaining their close relationship. So-called Open relations (Open Relationship), the Relationship between the both sides may have one or more at the same time short or long term partners, such partner may be in the form of short date, or a long-term marriage, and so on. Simply put, neither side agrees with the exclusivity of monogamy or love. But I have always believed that the two people who can really reach an open relationship must be irreplaceable in each other's hearts. He or she is not necessarily able to satisfy all your desires, but it can give you something that no one else can give you (both m...

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THROUPLE?

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Throuple means there are more than two people in a close relationship, and they love each other. We also called it threesome. So, if you ever have a  throuple dating  or  threesome dating , and can you accept a  polyamory  relationship? We have received some answer for anonymous, let’s have a look at. A1. Be confident enough to believe that there is no substitute for be swayed by considerations of gain and loss in the other person. I can accept this relationship. A2. One day you will find that a fixed relationship is a hindrance to an emotion, and that a person’s love needs to be candid. I am in favor of open relations. A3. And I have been hoping that someone can accept the open relationship, but my friend told me, didn’t really have a try before can’t be in the end this is not suitable for you, open relationship may just be wishful thinking in my head, actually is not workable for me. Anyway, I’d love to try it. Even though my boyfriend now says, ‘no...

What is open relationship

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Open Relationship  refers to having sexual contact with others outside of a fixed Relationship. The open relationship has different specific ways, but the basic commonality is the sexual contact outside the relationship, which does not affect the relationship between the two people. The ability to continue open relationships is mostly a long-term relationship between two people, a solid emotional foundation, a high degree of mutual trust, and a sufficient psychological maturity. In addition, both can accept the separation of sex and love. Open relationships can help long-term relationships if handled well. From a moral point of view, as long as there is no harm to others, such as the relationship between sexual partners are fully informed, single, there is no deception, then open relationships are adults of the freedom of choice. Some comrades are very contemptuous of this phenomenon sometimes. Remember, if only because you don’t like, can’t accept, not according to whether ...