open relationships and throuple dating

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When I went to school in Colorado, I met a boy who received me. We talked about sexual orientation and intimacy a lot. And he gave me some surprised about his opinion.
He says he’s a bisexual, he once has a boyfriend, and he once has a girlfriend too, what’s more he’s not just a one-on-one relationship, yeah, he said he always has a open relationship, and someone called it polyamory. He has had a relationship with more than two partners and doesn’t like the current monogamous marriage, and if he can, he wants to have a throuple relationship in the future. It means he wants a polyamory relationship in his life. Some of our conversations are as follow:
Me: How do you date with your sex partners?
Owen: The first, two of our partners can’t be the people in our two living circles, that is, not to be connected to our daily lives.
Secondly, we can’t hold hands and kiss with the sex partners, because holding hands and kissing only belong to each other. It is very important to show our honest to each other. In addition, we will be able to tell sex partners clearly that we are open relationships at first time. If the sex partner is not willing, we will not cheat each other to achieve our goal, which is the most basic.
Third, only fixed time can meet with the sex partners, I usually at weekend. And leave the rest of the time to each other.
Fourth, don’t talk about your own relationships to your partner. If he doesn’t want to know the details, I won’t do it.
Me: do you think sex and love are separated?
Owen: it’s very hard to find sex in a person. I think sex and love are separate, but not completely isolated.
Me: are open relationships is a relationship between a partner and multiple friends?
Owen: No. Open relationships come in many forms. It’s just my last relationship. It can be multiple partners, not just friends. I would like to try two different types of mates, like I also like girls with two different types of cute and intellectual.
Owen: I’m against the marriage system, not because I want to mess up.
Me: ha ha ha
Owen: open relationships, I think it’s more important to emphasize relationships than to emphasize openness. Because you have to put a lot of effort into it. The motivation for an open relationship is not just desire, but the people who matter to you, and you want to be with them. To be honest, I’m worried about your understanding of sex. Don’t be afraid! I’m not gonna do anything! Just think you know too little. Such as threesome dating, throuple dating, and so on. Haha, thank you for believing in me. This kind of thing is usually given a weird look.
I want to know more about one thing more fully. In a habit of judging a person’s social mainstream by virtue of a sexual morality, Owen may be judged to be sexually chaotic, morally corrupt and socially marginalized. Sometimes, we can accept indifference and arrogance, a little more pluralistic tolerance and understanding. Isn’t it lovely to be honest with each other than with many secret marriages?
In addition, in terms of physical health, Owen is very careful about safe sex and has regular physical examinations. And in my opinion, I enjoy the throuple datingand wish you could enjoy yourself freely. HAVE FUN!

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