Do people really like polyamory?

These days, young people have long been labelled "open relationship" by the media: they have the urge to go to bed and/or date. Some people are asiatics, they like to put this kind of behavior is called "regression of human nature," back to the western concept of marriage before, haven't we all believe in true love and trick the diamond. Others see it as an excuse to cheat, a side effect of a generation that is overly enthusiastic about going to bed on their first date.
Although there is no reliable data (as there are no any data) proves that the increase of the throuple dating and abomination millennials correlation between birth, but it's hard to say Tinder and Grindr popular reflection of the App is not a sign of The Times. However, it is not yet clear how to deal with the jealousy that accompanies a passionate desire to pursue a plural partner, or how to balance that desire in a real relationship.
We found Jillian Deri, a professor and sexologist at Simon Fraser university. In a book called Love's Refraction, Delhi explores how multiple relationships can solve jealousy problems and learn to Love their partners who also Love others. We talked about why my peers seem to be tempted to stray, and whether self-righteous young people like me are really ready for an open relationship.
Q: What do you think of open relationship?
Gillian derry: we need to distinguish between "multiple partnerships" and "threesome dating". In multiple relationships, people tend to build emotional connections with more than one person, not just casual meetings. People inner basic identity is made of a single partner, and those who before settling down casual dating multiple narcissist, also is not necessarily because multiple narcissists often need to establish close relationship with the complex object or a relationship.
Q: Is there any evidence that some people are able to turn off their jealousy alarms and feel the ambivalence of being connected to a single partner in an open relationship?
Gillian derry: Of course, a lot of people did it, but we didn't have any research to really prove it. According to my research, there are many kinds of jealousy, ranging from mild anxiety to severe emotional distress. One theory I focus on is called "compersion," a term coined by multiple lovers to be the opposite of jealousy. It refers to the pleasure a multi-lover feels when he sees other relationships in bisexual playground with his partner. Interestingly, the English dictionary is not able to describe the situation of the official word - in western society, if you are with people outside the official partner, we know that the only possible outcome is jealous.
It's easy to understand this: if your siblings or parents are doing well, you'll be happy for them -- unless you're jealous! (laughter) this is called love my dog. What I'm studying is how multiple lovers can make love and love possible in multiple relationships.
Q: About the concept of love in the house: do people need to learn how to love their house, or do they say that some people are born with a personality that is not easily envied?
Gillian derry: Who knows? Depending on your close relationship, it may depend on how secure you are. When you are lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans or one of the LGBTQ+, you may feel jealous when you are with this person, and you feel safe with that person. Often this has to do with the power of power, the direction of the three people relationship, or the potential for development. And there are differences in how people feel about envy -- some people can overcome jealousy, and feel "love me and my love" more easily than ever. At the beginning or end of a relationship we tend to be more jealous because we don't know what other people think and wonder if they've lost interest.