Are you in open relationships?

Open relationship of the two sides agreed not to single system to limit the close relationship, the two sides agreed to maintain the existing close relationship, at the same time allow the two sides and others develop long-term or short-term romantic/sex. And someone would like to called it throuple, threesome dating and polyamory relationship, that's all right.
While talking about an open relationship, people first reaction is always open, in fact, explore to which step in the relationship, contains what content, completely is determined according to the participants intend to negotiate. So, there are some open relationship is open to relate to people and some open relationship is open enough to allow flirting, kissing and some open relationship is open to sexual contact. Openness to sex is often the most cautious step in open relationships. Really understand the open relationship, and intend to practice an open relationship, will realize that if you want to protect the existing relationship, to maintain good valuable intimacy and trust on both sides, every step must make the information out in the open, are fully considering the scale of the all people can accept, all must begin to explore from the smallest scales.
Interestingly, although a lot of people claim that they never accept open relationships, in fact, their behavior says that openness already exists in their relationships.
For example: can you see your partner's phone without hindrance? Do you communicate with each other? Are you going to confess your emotional experiences/sexual experiences to each other? How do you feel about other people in your relationship?
You see, you are willing to connect with the heartfelt praise by the relationship, have an open relationship of kernel: information open and communicate their feelings in the relationship and feelings of others in bisexual playground.
Do you believe that in relationships you will always have sex with one another and not have sex with others? Do you believe that you are in an insulator when you build relationships, and that there is no third party that is attracted to any of your relationships? Do you limit your partner and others to build short-term/long-term relationships? Can you also build short-term/long-term relationships with other people? Do you believe that a similar attraction will not occur after a partner is attracted and derailed by a third person?
You probably can realize, relationship will not meet the needs of both sides all forever, we recognize that there are external stimulation to influence relations, the relationship between the insulation has never existed, has the cognitive, most people will choose to make a little compromise, and others have association partners will allow, for example, could allow both sides feel attracted by others and by others admire, and in a long-term relationship, the more people will use more of their suspicion, a sexual relationship with others when there is no indication of your partner/deep romantic emotion, questioning is rare, so the communicative behavior, and agreed to open to open relationships and the degree of the opposite sex, this kind of behavior, what's the difference? Perhaps the biggest difference is the ability to share information with each other in throuple dating.
Any close relationship is at risk, and the process itself is at risk when we deliver our feelings to love someone and desire to be loved. We build a loyal commitment to each other in return for our loyalty, and we will never know whether we will default or not. We make promises about good love, we crave our relationships to be happy, to stay away from jealousy, to fear, to end our insecurities and feelings of insecurity. We may or may not, but we are always aware that monogamy is the dominant mode of marriage in our culture, but not the only solution for everyone.
And open relationship, also is not for those on the verge of a broken relationship, it is for people who realize that he does not adapt to monogamy, or they can't promise will always stick to monogamy. It is not only to meet the sexual desire, it is possible that in order to satisfy their emotional needs, desire to be longed for, want to attract by others, is a kind of normal demand. Open relationship, of course, absolutely is not perfect, it is not the solution of all relations, in the moment not for open relationship between people is likely to be the mainstream, because people about love and relationship of cognition, have discipline, it is not easy to jump out of these cognitive.
Open (even just relationship is to associate with others), will often face emotional fluctuations, may experience jealousy, fear, etc negative emotions (and, of course, all of these negative emotions in the vast majority of relationship exists, the difference only lies in whether or not you will be involved with information sharing). Open relationship has a very big premise, namely the status and share the same standards, and in which equal voting rights, have rights itself means responsibility, when this attempt was eventually think doesn't fit you, you won't be able to transfer liability to any person, and the expected itself may lead to anxiety emotion.
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